The title says it all. She is that indeed. I can't look at her anymore. It really gets me down. If you prepare yourself for failure, when it happens it doesn't hurt as much. On the other hand, if you don't approach something with a positive attitude, then you are bound to fail.
I'd like to think that the world is fair and everyone has a fair shot. But that in fact is not true. If you happen to be a certain race or have certain beliefs that differ from the predominate people around you, it affects your ability to succeed. There is no homogeneous world yet, even in New York. People still have their predisposed ideas about other races. Most people living in New York would claim to be open minded but when it comes to important life decisions like marriage, would they be willing to marry inter-racially? Marriage might be too serious a topic. Would they even consider dating outside their race or ethnicity? When you ask any person who they are looking for in a partner, the general consensus is someone who is nice. Does this mean every nice beast has a chance at scoring with a beauty? This is where chemistry comes in. Everyone has a different idea of what is attractive to them. Some people find simple beauty attractive. Some are attracted to money and power. Rebels have a certain appeal. That's what makes social interaction so diverse.
If this was a movie, I would definitely get the girl. Why? Because I'm that nice guy that has so much to offer once you got to know me. hahaha. I'm that underdog that you want to root for to win, right? Alas, this is not Hollywood.
Yet, I will say good guy underdog FTW!
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